Question:
What is your opinion regarding repressed memories?
anonymous
2007-02-26 17:54:24 UTC
My friend swears due to counseling that she was molested when she was younger. I have a hard time trusting repressed memories due to a history of shrinks coaching and planting erroneous information. What do you think...??
25 answers:
Lindsey H
2007-02-26 18:31:44 UTC
It depends. I beleive in repressed memories. But I also know the power of the subconscience mind. It actually doesn't know the difference between reality and fiction. That's why dreams seem so real and cause you to wake up in a cold sweat, and also why if we continuously lie to ourselves, we will begin to beleive those lies. So because of that, it is possible to say that you remember something that never really happened, if enough information was implanted into your head over a long enough period of time. And you will actually beleive it happened. I knew a woman who told her 7 yr old son over and over that he was molested by his stepdad. She told him this long enough that in court, he testified this, and had the story so memorized that he actually beleived it happened.This was all to get money, of course. It's possible. Think about her motives for saying this. Do you think she's seeking attention( has she been telling quite a few people about it?), or does she talk to you really sincerely about it, and only to you, or the people she is close to and trusts? Usually people who are molested don't like to talk about it, they feel ashamed. Try to figure out what her motives for telling you are- to get attention, or does she really want your help dealing with this, or is there some reason why she may want to get back at the person she says molested her by creating this story? It's possible she is making it up, but also possible that she's telling the truth, don't dismiss it so easily. The only thing you can really do is to be there for her emotionally as a friend, because you really don't know the truth, only she does, but don't get involved too deeply in the rest, stay out of it. Stay neutral, don't take sides (don't begin to despise the person she is blaming for this, since you don't know the truth.)Don't help her if she tries to take legal action, etc., because it is a part of her past you aren't involved with. Just be there as a friend, and just do that by listening, because it will be hard to give advice if you don't know the whole story. Good luck.
anonymous
2007-02-26 19:41:14 UTC
I just recently read a section in my psychology textbook about repressed memories. It is an extremely controversial idea because psychologists and other therapists hold a position of extreme power while in session with their clients. Some so called "repressed" memories have been found to have been totally false. Through leading people on with the right kinds of questions, you can make them remember things that haven't happened. For more information, you should review some studies of Elizabeth Loftus. She was a victim of a repressed memory of her daughter dying, and thus became a leader in the field. Your question cannot be answered without corroborative evidence about her molestation. Though I do think it would crass and rude to deny your friend's molestation without any evidence contradicting it.
anonymous
2007-03-06 17:55:04 UTC
Some individuals that have gone through traumatic times such as rape or molestation at an early childhood and gone undeterred by parents ends up as the child compressed the thoughts to an inner ID memory in the brain.



They will then associate any sexual behavior as dirty and become insensitive towards the opposite sex when they are grown and apprehensive about sex as they get older as well.



This leads to a repressed memory that eventually comes out as a time bomb and the person with the post disorder is more likely not to enjoy the pleasures of sex , but rather hate it to the point that they become dirty with it and that leads to prostitution and very nasty girls and boys that are submissive based on anger and eruption rather peace and love.
dad
2007-03-06 09:36:59 UTC
Yes their are repressed memories, I can remember my first short glimpse of the ceiling in the delivery room then fade to black

next memory of being a conceious being with a mama and the horror of that day and night, about a year later. No asking or planting was even subscribed by my doctor. I was just describing what my first two memories were and how the second memory was upsetting to me , i even remember the house and the name of the street.



Guess what ? the doctor was familiar with the house and the street !
sb
2007-03-05 01:22:34 UTC
It is always better to forget the past and care for the future. I know it is easy tosay that but not easy to practice in real life. Even than, if possible one should try to avoid the repressed memories and get oneself bust in some sort of social service orhelping the needy or reading books or going to visit places rather thanchurning old memories. One living with the repressed memories requires counciling, help and affection from others to get rid of such a past.
crct2004
2007-02-26 17:59:54 UTC
I once had an experience where I remember right up until a certain moment and right after the event occurred. It was really strange, makes me think there is something to repressed memories. The subconscious does hold allot of information.

I see what you are saying about patients being led to false memories. I think it is a very tricky issue. I think a really good therapist would not allow that to happen.
anonymous
2007-02-26 18:00:27 UTC
Gosh, I don't really know what to think about that. I think it's possible that people can have repressed memories but it's odd that they're normally only from childhood. Like people who suffer from post traumatic stress syndrome don't claim to not remember blocks of the war because it's too painful. The memories are what cause their condition.



It's also possible that shrinks and counselors can plant those ideas in your head to reach their own ends. It if their job, after all, to find a problem and "fix" it...
rachel s
2007-03-05 12:07:33 UTC
I believe repressed memories can come back to you later in life, I started having nighmres a few years back about being beaten by my mother as a child, when I told an aunt she told me a lot of things that happened to me as a child before my mon left me, then i started seein a psychologist whp explained repressed memories to me, I had more for about a year and then it just stopped. She could have been molested, and if so just be ther for her as much as you can.
anonymous
2007-02-26 18:01:16 UTC
I have a hard time believing that too. Silly example for ya, I found a diary that I had kept in high school and I could not remember half of the details that I wrote in them. I remember doing stuff but not all. Its not cuz I made up the stuff its just the memories are distorted from the truth that I had written. So as far as being molested I would think that you would never forget. But if this helps your friend to get better than dont judge her just LISTEN and be supportive.
Monica
2007-02-26 18:00:07 UTC
I think it could be true if she came to that conclusion on her own without her counselor suggesting it to her somehow, but how would you know for sure? (There have been times I've suddenly remembered a not so nice memory from child hood and I do not go for counseling.) I am with you though, I am pretty skeptical about these things.

BUT I guess you ARE her friend so you should probably be as supportive to her as possible, right?
anonymous
2007-03-06 17:50:32 UTC
I wish I could express an opinion, but I think too many of my memories have in fact been repressed, and I dont know what I think or who I am? Can anyone help me?
Behaviorist
2007-03-06 07:37:25 UTC
You're wise to doubt this stuff. A lot of evidence exists that repressed memories are often bunk. Memories aren't tape recorders that record everything just as they happened. They are malleable and can be influenced by things people tell you, by authority figures insisting that things happened, by things we read, but other things in our histories.
Anica
2016-02-01 07:01:22 UTC
opinion repressed memories
4everamusedw/humanity
2007-03-05 09:30:50 UTC
Hell, most people I know can't remember what they did last week. If all of a sudden one of them said, "I remember being molested when I was six.", a skull-jockey would be the last person I'd send them to. Myself, I'd take them to the local tavern until they drank that nonsense out of their head. The next day they would'nt even remember telling me about their "repressed-memory". Problem solved.
Jan C
2007-03-05 23:54:11 UTC
I seriously doubt the repressed memories theory. If something really good or bad happened in our past, we would remember it.
christian b
2007-02-26 18:04:27 UTC
A woman who lives near to my place told her daughter:"I'm doing 'repressed memory therapy'.I'll get something on you

yet".
Lola
2007-02-26 21:02:15 UTC
repressed memories are real. never could believe it myself. was lying down reading and suddenly a memory flashed in my brain and i couldn't believe that it happened to me when i was 5 yrs old and the memory came back to me when i was in my 30's. it explained a lot why some members of our relatives are whispering when they saw me all grown up.
Tom's Mom
2007-02-26 17:59:53 UTC
They are a bunch of psychobabble hooey used by unscrupulous shrinks. They rarely have any bearing on the facts. Tell your friend to stop whining to a shrink, get over whatever she thinks might have happened & get on with the rest of her life. Honestly, I feel sorry for her. There are so many better things to do in life than whine about what happened when you were 5.
Maka
2007-03-06 16:56:18 UTC
You could be on to something . Shrinks , like everybody else are looking for things to justify their existance.
jekin
2007-02-26 18:03:52 UTC
They will pop up as you get real old. Trust me. If you don't like them, just think of something else. don't dwell on the past unless they are fond memories.
anonymous
2007-02-26 17:56:56 UTC
Suggestions can be adopted by the unconscious, just as reality can be suppressed by the unconscious. Its really hard to tell which case one is faced with.
Marie
2007-03-06 17:44:30 UTC
for some it is true, for others it's not ...so just keep doing what your doing and be the good listening friend that you are....
anonymous
2007-03-06 11:38:52 UTC
I say if you can't remember it leave it alone.
Ace Librarian
2007-02-26 18:52:51 UTC
I have my doubts.
Dolphin
2007-02-26 20:05:44 UTC
A repressed memory, according to some theories of psychology, is a memory (often traumatic) of an event or environment which is stored by the unconscious mind but outside the awareness of the conscious mind. Some theorize that these memories may be recovered (that is, integrated into consciousness) years or decades after the event, often via therapy. They may also reoccur in dreams. The theory of dissociative amnesia makes the assumption that memory repression is possible. The repressed memory concept was popularized during the 1980s and partly the 1990s by the popular press, some feminist groups, and some psychological schools of thought; however it is suffering a retreat in popularity with professionals and the public during recent years after a series of scandals concerning it.[citation needed]



The concept was originated by Sigmund Freud in his 1896 essay Zur Ätiologie der Hysterie ("On the etiology of hysteria"), however Freud himself abandoned his theory between 1897-1905, and during 1920-1923 replaced it with his impulse-based concept of Id, Super-ego, and Ego. Friedrich Nietzsche was the first to suggest that such a mechanism might exist in the second essay of his On the Genealogy of Morals. The theory of repressed memories must not be confused with the established psychological concept of repression in general which stresses impulses instead of memories.



Do repressed memories actually exist?



Repressed memories may or may not exist. Amnesia of traumatic events does appear to happen, as do false memories or pseudo-memories; however, the theory of repressed memories involves far more, as it theorizes not only that memories can become completely unavailable to the conscious mind (amnesia) but that those same memories could later be retrieved, and at the time of retrieval have the same (or greater) reliability as memories which were never unavailable to the conscious mind. Many theories of Amnesia, such as Dissociative Amnesia, involve recall.



However it remains true that one must distinguish general psychological repression, amnesia, false memories or pseudo-memories, and the theory of repressed memories. They all are different concepts, each building upon different theoretical conceptions.



There currently exists a great controversy among researchers, treating professionals, law professionals, and the general public as to whether repressed memories actually exist, and even more heated controversy over whether recovered memories are valid, especially in the absence of corroboratory evidence. This is particularly important as many controversial criminal cases have been based on a witness' testimony of recovered repressed memories, often of alleged childhood sexual abuse. In some instance, the presumed existence of repressed memories are used to extend the Statute of limitations of child abuse case. Abuses of the Repressed Memory Theory and of controversial therapies like Recovered Memory Therapy often cause false memories to be formed.[citation needed]



The Recovered Memory Therapy industry involved thousands of psychotherapists using hypnosis, group therapy and other means to help patients recover alleged "repressed memories". This industry was dismantled over a five year period by hundreds of malpractice lawsuits beginning with the Hamanne v. Humenansky trial of August of 1995. See, See, Gustafson, Paul. Jury awards patient $2.6 million: Verdict finds therapist Humenansky liable in repressed memory trial Minneapolis St. Paul Tribune, August 1, 1995. See also, Associated Press, Doctor Loses False-memory Suit, Chicago Tribune, Wed. Aug. 2, 1995, Sec. 1, pg. 12 "I think the effect is a stunning warning to therapists... and to insurance companies that they had better start obeying the informed consent laws and stop using experimental treatments like recovered memory treatments on patients…," attorney/psychologist R. Christopher Barden said. "This is a huge warning shot to them."



Subsequent cases produced similar results culminating in the Burgus v. Braun case which, at $10.6 million, remains the world record for a psychotherapy malpractice settlement. See, See, Belluck, P. Memory Therapy Leads to a Lawsuit and Big Settlement [$10.6 Million], The New York Times, Page 1, Column 1, Nov. 6, 1997. The next thing I think there will be is legislation to require informed consent from psychiatric patients for such [recovered memory] 'treatments', said Dr. R. Christopher Barden, a psychologist and lawyer [for the plaintiff]... I think insurance companies will stop reimbursing people for mental health treatments that are not proven safe and effective. This is the death knell for recovered memory therapy. And it was.



Recovered memory therapy today is considered a dangerous form of malpractice and a cause for license revocation.



Research and theories supporting repressed memories



Some theories claiming support for so-called repressed memories are controversial and have little support among some mainstream memory experts. One speculative theory on how repressed memories originate is that traumatic memories are stored scattered about in the amygdala and hippocampus but not integrated into the neocortex. Also, it could be possible the right brain stores the memory but does not communicate it to the verbal left brain. This may mean that there is a continual active effort by the unconscious to repress memories, which can be dropped at a moment's notice should the unconscious decide to. For example, one possibility might be the anterior cingulate actively inhibits the memory from reaching consciousness.



Another theory is that the cortisol, a chemical released during trauma, may induce forgetting.[1][2] Cortisol appears to have the ability to erase details and possibly induce amnesia. One anecdotal study done by ABC News showed military personnel who were put through an extremely traumatic situation were unable to properly identify details of the memories, even remembering the perpetrator as someone of a different sex or with a different skin color.[citation needed]



Some people believe that people just force themselves to forget. Some studies have shown that people can force themselves to forget non-traumatic facts. Other researchers say that this might be explained by normal forgetting and normal recall experienced with all memories.[3]



A review of these theories has been published by Professors Harrison Pope and James Hudson of Harvard Medical School. See, Pope HG Jr, Oliva PS, Hudson JI. Repressed memories. The scientific status of research on repressed memories. In: Faigman DL, Kaye DH, Saks MJ, Sanders J, eds. Science in the law: social and behavioral science issues. St. Paul, MN: West Group, 2002, pp 487-526. Many other opposing studies exit, such as those cited in Charles Whitfield, Memory and Abuse, 1995.



Research and theories critical of the theory of repressed memories



Some studies of more than 10,000 trauma victims found none that repressed or recovered memories of trauma. See Pope HG Jr, Oliva PS, Hudson JI. Repressed memories. The scientific status of research on repressed memories. In: Faigman DL, Kaye DH, Saks MJ, Sanders J, eds. Science in the law: social and behavioral science issues. St. Paul, MN: West Group, 2002, pp 487-526



Similarly, some studies of thousands of abused children found no evidence at all for so-called repressed or recovered memories. Coupled with laboratory studies and other naturalistic investigations, most prominent researchers in the field agree with Harvard University's Richard McNally and consider the notion of repressed memory to be a pernicious bit of psychiatric folklore. See McNally RJ. The science and folklore of traumatic amnesia. Clinical Psychology: Science and Practice 11:29-33, 2004



In addition, recent research demonstrating the relative ease of deliberately implanting false memories has been cited as evidence for this hypothesis. Hundreds of people who went through therapy and were convinced that they had been abused by their family members have recanted and no longer believe they were abused.[5]



However, there have been many other studies that show a small percentage of childhood trauma that was verified by medical records, was forgotten for some significant period and remembered or verified later in life. See Charles Whitfield, MD, Memory and Abuse, 1995, pg 69.



Repressed memories also may be mistaken for a normal form of amnesia of early childhood experienced by all humans. Memories before age 2 are almost always false or at least inaccurate, and few adults remember anything before age 3. This does not mean the individual was not abused, just that they do not have any memory of it and should not be expected to recall it.



Recovered memory therapy



The recovered memory therapy (RMT) movement peaked in the mid-1990s with tens of thousands of patients annually reporting new so-called recovered memories. Thousands of patients’ families were torn asunder by allegations of abuse produced in therapy. The recovered memory movement was ultimately decimated by a wave of successful malpractice lawsuits. The first multi-million dollar verdict against a recovered memory therapist was the 1995 case of Hamanne v. Humenansky case in the U.S.[6] The final crushing blow to the RMT movement came in 1997 with a $10.6 million legal award to the Burgus family.[7] "The next thing I think there will be is legislation to require informed consent from psychiatric patients for such so-called 'treatments'," said Dr. R. Christopher Barden, a psychologist and lawyer [for the plaintiff], "This (case) is the death knell for recovered memory therapy."



World-wide attention on the Burgus case exposed the glaring scientific, methodological and ethical errors inherent in recovered memory therapy and the underlying theory of so-called repressed memories. Following a series of high profile litigation losses, many of the professional leaders of the RMT movement suffered licensing prosecutions, license revocations, disciplinary actions and even criminal prosecutions. The leading journal in the field, Dissociation, ceased publication. By 2000, the "memory wars" were largely over and it is rare in 2005 to find a therapist who will admit conducting any form of therapy to recover so-called repressed memories. International experts in memory, research procedures and ethics continue to document how and why such an odd form of quackery became so widespread. The definitive work on the subject to date is "Remembering Trauma" by Prof. Richard McNally, Harvard University Press (2003). Prof. McNally summaries the relevant scientific research and concludes that the notion of repressed memory is nothing more than psychiatric "folklore".



Body memory



A form of repressed memory is supposed to be Body memory. Body memory is a claim that the body itself (rather than the brain) remembers something - typically abuse. This is characterised by a pain in a body part where there appears to be no present day physical reason for the pain, so this is seen as evidence of the body remembering a past pain, similar to phantom limb syndrome.



Some psychologists and social workers use the term body memory to refer to physical symptoms that accompany trauma. Studies have shown that survivors of trauma, specifically with PTSD, have a predisposition to illness and injuries. Stress headaches would also be an example of a "body memory" when you use this definition. However, these symptoms are not only trauma induced and do not prove or disprove memories or trauma.



There currently is no scientific evidence of body memory corresponding with either of these two definitions.



Freud on repressed memory



Freud abandoned his theory of repressed memory not "during his later years in life" and not due to social pressure, as some feminist schools of thought[citation needed] claim today. Some sources do not even mention Freud's decision of abandonment at all (for example Bass and Davis 1988,[8] Herman 1992[9]). Freud encountered facts in his psychoanalytical practice that contradicted his initial theory of repressed memories of traumatic sexual experiences during early childhood (mostly referred to as Freud's Seduction theory).[10] These were



a.) that he increasingly came upon evidences in individual cases logically outruling any possibility the 'recovered' events could have occurred,

b.) that, to a degree, he found himself able to direct his more suggestible patients into any recollection of memory he wanted to (especially while they were undergoing hypnosis), even more so in an entirely boundless manner when he turned to sexual matters, and

c.) linked aspects (to repressed memories timewise, spatially, and/or causally) that in contrary had not been repressed or that had always been manifest to the conscious mind of his patients in a transformed appearance (see defence mechanism) were not perceived by his patients as alarming or frightening on themselves. If negative trauma was the cause for the repression Freud observed, they should hence be perceived as negative. In fact these linked aspects frequently were connoted with positive emotions, partly even very intensely so, that the patients themselves could not explain.

Freud deduced from a.) and b.) that the unconscious mind actually knows no distinction between memories and imagination and therefore easily becomes subject to manipulation of memories and imagination, and by combining this analysis with c.), he concluded that it is personal desires and fantasies that are getting repressed instead as demanded according to social taboo.



This theory of repressed impulse in fact was the fundament of Freud's psychology, and it was essentially much more provocative and controversial than his initial theory of repressed memory had been already. First advancements after abandoning his initial theory of repressed memory can be seen in his Oedipus complex concept developed 1897-1905 (by his 1905 Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality, it had completely replaced his initial theory), however it would take until the years 1920-1923 that Freud would introduce Id, Super-ego, and Ego.



One might say that by the recent disillusionment concerning sensationalist Recovered Memory Therapy during the past few years, mainstream scientific research is currently undergoing the acknowledgement of Freud's stages of a.) and b.). Whether scientists and even the public will acknowledge c.) and accept Freud's conclusions is a matter that only time can tell.



Famous trials involving repressed/recovered memories



Famous cases involving repressed memories come in two forms. The first was a wave of criminal prosecutions based upon recovered memories of abuse.



George Franklin Sr., charge: murder, accuser: Eileen, daughter crime: 1969, convicted 1995 time in jail: 6 years, duration of memory suppression: 20 years

accuser: Nicole Taus, charge: abuse, duration of suppression: 11 years

In some of the cases of Catholic priests accused of fondling or sexually assaulting juvenile-turned-adult parishioners [11][12]; also in the case of Joseph Cardinal Bernardin.

The second was a wave of malpractice litigation cases that ended the reign of terror and collapsed the recovered memory therapy movement. Few if any recovered memory cases have been seen since many of the proponents of this controversial therapy suffered lawsuits and license revocations. Examples include the highly visible cases of Vynette Hamanne, Elizabeth Carlson and Patty Burgus, all of whom received multimillion dollar jury verdicts or settlements. Another example is the case of Tom Rutherford, who sued a Missouri church therapist and won a $1 million settlement for claims that he molested his four-year-old daughter and then forced her to have an abortion (he had, in fact, had a vasectomy year before and medical examination showed his daughter was still a virgin at age 23). State licensing boards also acted to end the recovered memory therapy movement, revoking or restricting the licenses of many prominent recovery memory proponents.



See, Belluck, P. Memory Therapy Leads to a Lawsuit and Big Settlement [$10.6 Million], The New York Times, Page 1, Column 1, Nov. 6, 1997.; See also, Guthrey, M. and Kaplan, T., 2nd Patient Wins Against Psychiatrist: Accusation of planting memories brings multi-million dollar verdict. St. Paul Pioneer Press, Jan. 25, 1996, 4B.



Repressed memories in popular entertainment



Repressed memories have frequently been portrayed in popular entertainment, especially as a plot device.



The film Tommy: the title character is coerced into forgetting that he has witnessed the murder of his father.

The film Nurse Betty: Betty also witnesses a murder and as a result of the trauma forgets her entire reality for a time, deluded into being a character in her favourite soap opera.

The film The Butterfly Effect: Evan has blackouts throughout his childhood when in traumatic situations. As a college student, he attempts to recover these memories and finds that he can change the past.

The film Spellbound.

The video game Final Fantasy VII: the protagonist Cloud Strife carries false memories of his service in SOLDIER, the real memories suppressed after his Mako treatment.

The anime/manga Elfen Lied: one of the main characters, Kouta, suppressed the majority of his childhood after seeing his little sister being murdered by the protagonist Lucy.

The anime/manga Fruits Basket: the supporting character, Hatori Sohma had to suppress the memories of his love, Kana after Akito Sohma blinded Hatori's left eye by throwing a vase at him and blamed Hatori's injury on Kana. The guilt from the accident drove her into madness and Hatori was forced to suppress her memories so that she could once again smile. Hatori has also had to suppress the memories of Yuki Sohma's friends, and Momiji Sohma's mother.

The anime/manga His and Her Circumstances: When Arima visits his girlfriend, Yukino's house for the first time he realizes he doesn't have a deep bond with his adoptive parents and is confronted with repressed memories of abuse and abandonment from his real parents.

The novel The Perks of Being a Wallflower: Charlie is confronted with repressed memories of being sexually abused by his aunt in the end of the novel after being upset and confused by sexual contact with his crush/friend, Sam.

In the movie Serenity, the character River is made mentally whole after a repressed traumatic memory has been brought to the surface.


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