I need advice, ANY advice?

Question

Ok, here it is.......
My mother hurt her back years ago. She fell off a roof, and impacted her spine. She claims that 3 vertebra were crushed into the space/size of one. and now it hurts her a lot, and she can not do much. even carrying a since piece of firewood (probably about 5 to 10 pounds) is to much for her, and she seems to be getting worse.
Because of her spine, I have to take care of her animals, get her firewood several times a day in winter, prime the well pump when it goes dry (sometime several times a day in summer), carry in her groceries, and 90% of everything else around here, and I HATE living here.
I got her a set of crutches, so she could try to stretch out her back, and heal, but she never does it.
1 1/2 years ago my sister helped me to get out, and I had to come back after 3 weeks. Mom was found passed out in the field. no idea how long she had been there.
My home/camper is falling apart around me, and since she has a car, instead of a truck, I can not get the lumber to fix it. Now there is a 7 foot break, 3 inches wide in the back room, and the cold air is rushing in. I have enough scrap lumber to fix it, but it is a 2 person job, and she wont help, so I can not fix it.
Please do not tell me to get someone else to help. This may be the country, but it is not real friendly to outsiders, and even though I have been here for 15 long miserable years, since I was not born and raised here, I am still labeled as outsider.
I am just about ready to burn my camper, with me in it, just to end this eternal/endless boredom.
Don't have a car, and a way to get one, and it is 30 miles to he closest town, and more then 200 miles to the closest greyhound stop, so I can not just leave when ever I want to. I can't even haul off the trash or go to the local library, and they are only 3 miles away. I have to live in filth.
Any advice?
Any at all?

I asked this a few days ago, and the only response was totally useless.
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Even if there is such agencies around here, I have no no phone, no car, and no way to contact them. If I could, I already would have, years ago.

Answer 1

Psalm 17:1 A prayer of David. Hear, O LORD, my righteous plea; listen to my cry. Give ear to my prayer--it does not rise from deceitful lips.



I'm sorry to hear of your plight! The only advice I have is to seek the Lord. This would be a perfect time to start studying the Bible/seeking God.

Answer 2

Be there for her and attempt and get her to speak to her mom and dad... by using her talking to them supplies her greater innovations on wether or not she needs to maintain it or perhaps adoption she has greater innovations now than she will have the skill to later. Her mom and dad will locate out ultimately purely make optimistic it incredibly is to not previous due. And be a sturdy buddy and attempt and help/instruction manual her to make the innovations she needs and not what every physique "needs" her to do simply by fact she am has to handle it later on in existence no remember what she decides... and prefer the lady before mentioned her mom and dad will develop to the belief and specific there's a wager they are going to loose it however the desire not harm her or the toddler. So inspire her to make her judgements which will earnings her interior the tip.

Answer 3

Depending on how old she is, you should talk to her about staying in a nursing home, i know that it would suck, but u got to think about your self some too. i mean maybe moving somewhere else to be close to her

Answer 4

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