Question:
very serious question CAN SOMEBODY PLEASE ANSWER!!?
anonymous
2014-08-21 21:13:55 UTC
hi im geoff and im 13 years old. last year weird stuff started happening. i became increasingly anxious about minor things. like for example every time i would hear something about a new disease i would started to panic and freak out thinking that i have it when i obviously didn't. then i heard that song by macklamore that said "when i was in the third grade i thought i was gay." and that same day i watched a video of a rap battle between a girl and a boy and the girl made fun of him about how he told her that he thought he was gay when he was little. then i started to wonder should i be thinking this? now i worry about it everyday. i've tested my self by watching gay porn but it's just disgusting and i dont get erections. after i dont get a ***** i feel calm for a while. but then my mind tells me that i just forcing myself not to get an erection. sometimes it might get a little longer but i never get a true *****. it usually accompanied by the feeling of having to urinate. like just now i was doing my homework on the computer and i had a gay thought. i felt like i was gonna get a ***** but it was just like long but soft. i got up and realized that i was dripping with sweat from my pant leg. masturbtion about girls is now hassle with all the imagery floating around in my. i suspect i suffer from ocd. please help me.
Four answers:
Prof. JK
2014-08-21 21:40:59 UTC
Hey geoff,



Its okay brother. All these worries and anxieties you have to fight. You are at a vulnerable point in your life and need frameset and lens to see through the world you live in. Becoming a man is realizing your battles and how to fight them. You may lose some battles, you must fight to win the war.



Hormones definitely play a role in you like this. But if you blame it on your hormones (which is natural) then its like blaming time for making you 13. Its a pointless battle that brings only stress. The point is to be able to guide your thoughts and actions and to know that Christ has plans set out for you.



If you wish to know more on how to do this, message me.
mokrie
2014-08-22 04:28:09 UTC
Guess what--you and everyone your age is getting the hormone crazies. It's normal. Hormones make your mind run crazy..they make you angry one minute and cry the next. You get depressed and then you want to run off and join the circus the next minute. All teens go nuts for about 4 years. You just have to ride it out and know that when the hormones calm down you will become sane again. At least as sane as a 17 year old is. Quit over thinking things. You'll be fine in 4 years.
Summer
2014-08-22 04:15:01 UTC
No you're fine you're just talking yourself into a bunch of sh*t. The mind is a powerful thing, but you're in full control.
Andy C
2014-08-22 04:24:01 UTC
Who cares whether you are gay or not? You'll know soon.


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