I don't know why I think that I will surely become a big-big man someday ?

Question

I am a loser in life. I was detached partially from society for abt.4 yrs & about fully for nxt 2 yrs due to deep depression & some family problems. Due to this i have wasted complete 2 yrs of my school life. Even then, i don't know why, a gut feeling is always there in my mind that I will become a real big man someday particularly some tycoon. I know its logically wrong accrd. to present conditions but still it strongly remains in my mind.

I had never told it to anybody bcoz i know they will consider me as a gossip maker. A jyotishi also told the same thing to my mom. But don't take that i am feeling this due to him. It was already long ago in my mind before he told.Morever I don't believe in astrology at all BALKI i am a person who is almost atheist.

Answer 1

Iam a clinical psychologist.In my view your dreams of becoming big man shows that you have high achievement need and good motivation. But abnormal behavior like depression etc occurs, when there is difference between where we are and where we think ought to be.the problem becomes circular because the anxiety and tension block us from making further progress. So you can overcome obstacles and gap between the CURRENT SELF and the IDEAL SELF. May be psychotherapy helps you.

Answer 2

Hats off to ur self confidence!!!!!!!!!

So what if u lost two years of ur school life. It was not ur fault then why blame urself for it. Ur problems have only made u stronger. U have not lost anything more than 2 years, neither ur confidence nor ur belief in ur abilities. Ur strength to dream nice and big is still with u. Dont think u are a fool if u have such dreams. Unless and until u dream how will u change ur dreams into reality?

God has provided u with a blueprint of ur life. He has shown u what u are capable of. Now its ur duty to change ur dream into reality.

I am sure u can do it. Whenever we are shown a dream, we are also given the strength to make it come true.

Forget about what happened, move on in life, conquer ur dreams.

All the best!

Answer 3

Your question is your good thought.But the rest which follows your question is waste.Don't thing that you have wasted yrs and you only have family problems.The yrs you considered as waste are actually the time taken for you to learn the lesson.Whatever your family problem you can solve it.You have a good positive thinking so don't worry about the other factors.You will win.

Answer 4

Its gud then, if u so strongly feel positive for ur future, may b it's some intuition! You better utilise ur optimistic vision by doing even small things in a great way. This may b an opportunity for u to work even more hard an not just keep thinking and dreaming! Otherwise u may become another " mungeri lal "! Plz, don't mind, but i think u shud work.......work......and work only....now.

Answer 5

sapne dekna band kar aur apna kam kar.{its a joke}.

If u really think u can then just work hard for it. concentrate on ur work and u will get it. kabhi kabhi jyotish ki bhi baat sahi hoti hai. So BEST OF LUCK. Do it well. OK.

Answer 6

This looks like a journal entry or something you would blog. Do you even have a question? Or were you looking for people to say "yes, you'll be a big man someday"?

Answer 7

This is your wishful thinking...

Better work hard... just do not care for others who sidetracked you...

Forget the past ... live in present… and prepare for the future...

Answer 8

My best wishes are with you..go ahead...move towards progress and prosperity.

Answer 9

I pray to God

May you be a successor

Aameen

Answer 10

good luck, man, take zoloft tabs. 100 mg. one per day or see your doctor to day.

Answer 11

best of luck in your life

Answer 12

great man you think positively

Answer 13

u dunno!!!!...neither do i....tycoon would be dreamer

Answer 14

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