how to become an asshole?

Question

i did a lot of thinking lately. i realized woman only seem to be attracted to assholes. i myself am a " nice guy " i find it hard to treat a woman disrespectfully. they seem to use nice guys. just a shoulder to cry on when the asshole treats them like dirt. once they feel better they either go back to the same asshole or just a different one. they say they want a good guy. someone who would teat them the way they treat their man but its all a lie. all of it. i don't want to hear about self esteem and all that crap. i met six girls in two days and at one point or another they all said they think im a great guy. no issue there. i get along with woman.but they to all agree that all females go for the asshole. now for years i always said " naw that's just that type of woman " well im wrong. sooooo instead of wasting anymore time being the nice guy. what are some good asshole type lines that seem to work? is being an asshole some kind of sign that the guy is strong? or confident? i am in very good shape. idon't see how talking like a punk rather then being in good shape and actually being able to back your words up work. i am to the point that i don't care anymore. im tired of wasting my time getting used thinking its something when its nothing. what do you think? and thoughts or ideas?

some info you mite want. im 26 i am in very good shape. i dont dress like a thug/slob i dont talk like a thug/slob i try and respect people. try to......

Answer 1

Dude be yourself... the one thing you need to remember is that you can be yourself and still joke around a bit with the ladies. Just dont let your feelings be known until she tells you. She has to think it's her idea. During dating just be the good person you are and keep things close to the vest. Don't let assholes dictate your personality because I doubt you could change how you are and even if you could I doubt you would like yourself.

Answer 2

How To Be An Asshole

Answer 3

I know exactly how you feel!! But no that isn't the answer I would just be an asshole to that guy. You know make comments lol. Christmas is coming up I was thinking I could get you some tampons and midol lol stuff like that. I would of helped you carry a box.

Answer 4

Ok bro here's the best answer residing from an assholes viewpoint. Be nice at arrival when you first get to know them. Be funny or what ever, but be interesting. Don't open up so easily man.. you can be a dick later on in the road but act like her nice friend but act like a assh. At the same time.. twofaced assnig. Haa. Be flirt if youwant too.. dost matter...

Answer 5

Women are not attracted to men being a**holes. What women are attracted to, in these a**hole guys, is the fact that they have confidence. Often the nice guys are afraid to approach women and let them know they are interested...but the a**holes are not (maybe because they just want to use her, so their feelings aren't involved and they won't feel very hurt if she rejects him). The only reason the a**holes tend to get the girls is that they are confident and are not afraid to make their interest known.



What you need is not to become an a**hole, but to work on your confidence. Refuse to let fear keep you from approaching a girl you like, and refuse to let fear keep you from letting her know (early on, before you become "just friends" with her) that you are interested.

Answer 6

haha, yeaa okay bud. girls dont like assholes, they like men. not boys. if you were to be an asshole, you would just be a rude boy. assholes are very confident men who dont NEED girls. the want them. start with a different pace in girls.



better advice:



ur 26, your future wife oesnt want to marry an asshole. this is the age you pick the girl you want to marry, so be urself, a girl will like u!

Answer 7

dont be an asshole please.



nice guys are soo refreshing!