Would it offend the person if he asked "Why are you so quiet" and I reply with?

Question

"On a side note, why do you talk so much?" ?

That's an annoying question if you ask me.
I'm quiet. That's it. I don't prefer to talk. It's like asking why am I tall, why do I have black hair, etc.
You can't just explain why. But you know it.
And for me, it's like the asker is implying that I shouldn't be quiet. Why shouldn't I? You get to talk most of the time, I don't bother asking you to quiet down (unless it's really inappropriate), can't loud people do the same thing for quiet (NOT shy) people?
I agree with something I've read recently, it's like "society can't accept the fact that not all people are loud mouthed extroverts"

Answer 1

Just like you taking exception (or being offended) by their asking, if they chose to be offended by your response, they would be.

Answer 2

I feel the exact same way. :-] I'm a quiet person and it feels like some people just don't want to accept that. If it were me I wouldn't say that but it's all a matter of wether you think it's the right thing to say. Hope this helped. :-]

Answer 3

me:no



somebody else:mabey