I am at the point I am angry towards men to the point I can't even talk to them anymore.?

Question

I am shapely, even when I am down to 110 pounds at five foot six I am shapely. I get very voluptuous when I reach 120 and 130. I have blonde hair, excellent hygiene and I dress in fitted clothes like most girls and women. Even when I had red hair and dressed very conservative I got the same treatment.

Guys are either bitter towards me and slur out a low insult when walking by me who don't know me at all and I am just acting normal walking by. OR they think because I said a polite hi back they can interview me for possible mate material in less than two minutes of seeing me on the street just because I said "hi" back and I'm not even interested. Or they for some reason think I am a cheap fast lay where I'd just have sex with them when that is further from the reality without even knowing me. They can't ever just talk to me in a platonic way like they talk to any women or girl. It's either "lets have sex" or a bitter personal attack on me. Keep in mind they don't even know me. And the few guys that are my preferences, even if they like me they can't just talk to me and ask me out and get to know me, weird. Then co workers at work wonder why I am not in a relationship which is none of their business but this is why. Oh, and when they do talk to me they think I automatically "like" them when most I don't as I have personal preferences. I don't get it. Ever hear of just being friendly like I would to any girl. lol...

Answer 1

Anne Smith : forgive me, but not all men are the same ! I think the majority of us are looking for a long range relationship. Then there are the guys whom you have described. Those types are Professional assholes !

They think with the wrong " head " !

Please don't group all of us into one category. I know the type of men you are talking about and I also know that that's a very minority of men.

Anne, I'm sure you will find the right man or your " significant other " in the near future.

Just be patient and soon everyone will understand that you are not a " plaything . "

Answer 2

That's sexist.



Since you didn't have a question, and you just ranted, I guess I have nothing else to type other than this.

Answer 3

You. Need. Professional. Therapy. Plus a whole new world in which to try and form worthwhile relationships.