Should I see a psychologist?

Question

I'm 16 and ( surprise surprise) have a lot of insecurities.

I hate that I've never been drunk and I'm try as hard as I can t get people to get me alcohol cause my parents won't.And I'm terrified that in college people with think I'm all innocent and sheltered cause I never have.

I've never been to a high school party ( and can't throw my own) and worry that I'm missing out on the best years of my life cause I never have and likely never will. (people at my school never invite me)

I'm paranoid that I didn't lose my virginity early enough ( I was 15 and actually did want to have sex and I still want to have more sex now) and that I'm a freak cause no one wants to date me. And agian I'm terrifes people will think I'm all Innocent and cute for not having enough experience.

Thing is I really DO want to have more sex go to parties andget drunk (without going overbaord) because it's fun and I want the experince. This isn't other people pressuri g me Ito this or me trying to get peopleto like me. It's about wanting to live life to th fullest and have stories to talk a out.

But I can't.

And I dot know if I ever will. So I. Constantly depressed about it and have to constantly ask questions in here to see if I'm normal or a loser. I've been doing it for months. Most likely years. I constantly hope and pray I'll be able to make up for it in college but think that because I never did anything in high school I won't have enoughe xperience to do any of it I. College. So etimes I ven get angry and hope I can do it in college. And hope that I end up wtb alcohol poisoning just to get back at my parents for keeping me from gettig drunk at home where it was safe and loving. So etimes I hope I become a slut just so I'll finally be able to have sex when I want to and to finally have my own stories to tell and my own great sex life to brag about.

Point being...do you think it's time I see a psychologist about this :(.

Sorry for any spelling my iPod is inthe fritz.p

Answer 1

No. You sound like a fun person to be around. 16 that's about when our hormones tell us we are ready for some fun. You still have lot's of time ahead. From 16 to 18 is a skip and you will be free to do as you wish. Be independent, get your own place then and do you.



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Answer 2

Y E S I do and if you don't stop this kind of thinking then where is your childhood? what about your childhood? Having slumber parties and poaying with your pals. This type of thinking is way too old for you and yes you will benefit from a psychiatrist asap. See when you think this way this young and mention being a slut because your parents won't let you drunk there where safe? Then alcohol poisioning to pay them back for the lost time? You should be thinking about a good name and decent friends to be around you.Lifes not about a party actually the opposite.A decent life is before you and you do not want to taint your name and what others think about you. Not how much drunkenness you have, it's about getting an education. The partying is something that happens occasionally. Not a course to set standards by. Live a good decent life and thank god your parents are as they are. they just love you and you are punishing them for this? Do you need to see a psychiatrist? you tell yourself? you have a lifetime to party. a short time to be a child. one day you will thank them. My son is addicted to drugs and hes a gorgeous 25 yr old boy. pls be the better person here.

Answer 3

Your information is confidential. Psychologists and Psychiatrists are required to keep your information private under medical confidentiality rules. They are doctors. Now, if they believe this is a life threatening situation, they can take measures to have you supervised. Most eating disorders do not fit into this category. It sounds like you are taking the right steps to become healthier mentally. The dr. can't help if they don't know the whole situation, so holding back that you have an eating disorder is only going to harm you in the end. Please tell them so you they can treat you more effectively. Also, if you have an eating disorder, DO NOT take any medication prescribed unless you have told the psych dr. ALL medications are going to be less effective/not effective at all w/out this info or TOO effective. If you are anorexic, the medication is going to hit your system very, very hard. Your doctor will have to prescribe a lesser amount/different med so it doesn't cause very harmful side effects. If you're bulimic, you'll throw it back up with the food. Therefore you would need a fast acting med, so it would stay in your body. Please, please tell them so you don't do any other damage to yourself.

Answer 4

I'm not sure how I'm reading you. You (1) either have very flipped values and morals; or (2) you have absorbed today's trashy youth culture too thoroughly.



You want to be a slut? Sluts are what guys use (sometimes gals too) and walk away from because they don't respect them or care about them because they consider them trash. You want to get drunk and throw up all over yourself. Alcohol is a depressant, meaning it dummies down all your systems, physical, mental, emotional, so that you don't function up to par.



You don't want to look cute and innocent. Many gals would dearly love to look cute and innocent. Guys hunger for cute and innocent.



You think you're missing out on life at 16?! How about 17 through 29--do you think life will be over then (sorry, that was a bit harsh)? In other words you've got all kinds of time. What's the rush?



You think college is about partying--drinking, drugs and sex? Pretty expensive parties wouldn't you say. College is for learning and maturing and developing a potential career. Partying is just the dumb, wasteful and dangerous things too many young college kids do these days.



Ever heard of AIDS, herpes (not curable), the clap?



A psychologist may be able to help. Right now you're a definite danger to yourself.

Answer 5

See a psychiatrist very soon!

Answer 6

you need to visit a psychiatrist an a priest for sure!

Answer 7

if ur a chick it should be really easy to get f-u(sea)-ked and get dudes to buy you liquor..

i mean you would have to be one fat ugly beast of a ***** to not get dudes to plow get you drunk and gangbang you... but then again, you would really have to be a beast of a *****, cause most dudes would do just about anyone...



if you are a d00d then just get yourself a whore... b!tches bone for ca$h so just get on craigslist and get laid...

Answer 8

YES!