Question:
got a little bully problem can u help me solve it?
2006-08-30 16:28:44 UTC
alright there these mexicans at my school that claimed a table and since all the tabels were taken i went and sat next to my friend who was sitting there at first i didnt know and then a whole bunch of the mexicans came and asked us to scoot over and my other friend listened like a dog and i didnt i said umm no few mins later another friend of mine thts part of there group walked with another mexican chick and the mexican said alright listen up all three of you theres a lil guy thts cuming his name is jose and his lunch is next week if he sees u cuming he know peple tht will jump you i said he cant claim a table she said sorry to late he did SOO ON AND SO FOURTH how do i stand up 4 myself without fighting?
25 answers:
2006-08-31 01:20:00 UTC
Get a stick and knock their sorry asses down, kick them til the stop moving. Mexicans are a cowardly race as witnessed by their history. You will never fight them one on one.
judy_r8
2006-08-30 16:47:42 UTC
You could do one of 3 things, You could tell the person monitoring the lunch hour and look like a dorky little cry baby. You could just totally ignore their childishness, or you could be the better person and move to another table and understand that sometimes, pushing other people around at school is the only time they get to feel important. Most bullies are themselves bullied, usually by older sibs or parents. And I doubt they are real Mexicans, since they do go to school with you. But if they really are Mexicans, then it is your duty as a citizen to make them, the visitors, feel welcome. In fact, next time there is an empty chair at your table, invite one of them to sit with you. Its alswys better to make friends than enemies, and you never know when you will need another friend on your side.
the nothing
2006-08-30 16:38:45 UTC
I wouldn't stand up for myself honestly.



There comes a point in one's life that you gotta realize:



Anyone who jumps anyone over sitting at a lunch table is a Neanderthal and should be left alone.



That person sounds mentally unstable.



And these people definetly don't have their priorities in check. In other words, they are idiots.



And you cant reason with idiots because they don't think.



So do yourself a favor and sit somewhere else and stay out of it.



Because these people sound like idiots who want a reason to fight and they probably love to fight. So don't give them a reason.



Doesn't mean your a wimp. It means your smart enough to recognize someone really immature.



Good luck!



p.s.** this statement does not mean I think any or all Mexicans are idiots**
2006-08-30 16:36:10 UTC
If you really want to stand up for yourself, first decide how important this is to fight about... If you don't think a table is worth the hastle, let the babies have there dumb table. You can be the bigger person, and just sit somewhere else. If you don't resist them, and just let them have it, it will make them madder cause you didn't give them the opportunity to push you around. Be the bigger person. And take care of yourself!
Marina S
2006-08-30 16:33:26 UTC
Girl don't rush when you write I could not understand anything, what I think you said is these people want to sit at a table you want to or something like that well the best way is to stick up for you self is to ingore them.
cannon1977
2006-08-30 16:34:19 UTC
Mexicans tend to group up on you. They know there is strength in numbers. They are also cowards! That's right you filthy little gang banging tagger wanna-be's! You are cowards.



You can't do much but stand your ground. Then when they jump you have your parents press charges and send them off to Sing Sing.



You can't reason with losers of this type. Also if you are threatened you should go to someone in authority, express that you approach them and expect them to respect your confidentiality and ask them for advice.



Or shoot em up!
2006-08-30 16:36:14 UTC
Bring a really stinky lunch and smear it all over the table!



Nobody will want to sit there then!





Be confident is whatever you choose. Confidence can be intimidating
Neerdowellian
2006-08-30 16:39:36 UTC
Just sit at the table and eat your lunch. When they come up to you and tell you to move, say "Sure." Then stick a finger down your throat and throw up all over the table. Then scream, "MY table, filthy bitches! You wanna sit with me?" Then rub the vomit all over your body. I guarantee no one will ever mess with you again.
robyn
2006-08-30 16:38:23 UTC
from what i could understand from that.....if it were me, i would not move to a different table. if it comes down to a fight, defend yourself. don't teachers monitor lunch halls? if so, i would catch their eye if you sense trouble. if no teacher or authority figure there helps you, get your parents involved and go to the school board. no one wants to be a 'narc' or whatever but everyone has the right to be there without harrassment.
Scorpio11
2006-08-30 16:32:38 UTC
Whenever this confrontation is about to happen, let a teacher know. So that when it does, he/she can break it up before anything happens and no one will know that you told because they will think that that teacher just happen to walk by. Plus, these guys WILL get in trouble for harassmant.
grams40
2006-08-30 16:42:59 UTC
I'd laugh and tell her or him. that he can claim the table as long as my friends and I can sit with him.(smile) of course they will laugh, but, let him or her know your not moving and they need to get over it. I wish I was there, cause I'd sure stick up for you and with you.Tell them to grow up,that "Happy Days" is now only re-runs. Good luck and hey, let me know what happens. Thanks.
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2016-09-30 08:39:25 UTC
I hate listening to approximately ppl getting bullied! i understand u do no longer wanna tell the instructor yet its the suitable ingredient to do until now united statesa. on day destroy this jerks face. or perhaps yet another instructor which you believe
2006-08-30 16:38:30 UTC
Go to your teachers or principal in private, tell them about your problem and have them do something about it. Also let your parents know that you're having this problem in school.
Lunita del Sol
2006-08-30 16:33:06 UTC
Cook some Mexican food for them and bring it in as a peace offering.





fearaphobia, that sure was funny as HELL!!!!! LOL!
super stud
2006-08-30 16:32:22 UTC
Tell a teacher
worldstiti
2006-08-30 17:08:34 UTC
talk to someone at your school if you are at a nice school they have bully policy if you are in an inner city school you could get killed talk to a teacher or counslor about it





wait take it back i just rmembered columbine you could get killed anywhere
?
2006-08-30 16:35:07 UTC
Call a teacher and let her solve the problem.
bgii_2000
2006-08-30 16:32:08 UTC
First, learn to speak correctly.



Then tell a teacher.
2006-08-30 16:33:27 UTC
Find the biggest black guy in your grade and tell him the mex trash is messin' with black girls and then get the h**l out of the way!
I am watching your every move.
2006-08-30 16:32:30 UTC
that makes less sence than boomhower on king of the hill
smiles
2006-08-30 16:34:44 UTC
hi i am love_to_dance07 listen well just ask them to stop and they might but if they dont just tell me like message me k try it
Xae
2006-08-30 16:31:27 UTC
you dont



standing up for yourself in this day and time usually means you have to fight
2006-08-30 16:34:56 UTC
You need help from an adult
joejoeyjbgd
2006-08-30 16:32:10 UTC
good for you.
sandy k
2006-08-30 16:35:00 UTC
fight back


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