Question:
Can any one make me happy?
anonymous
14 years ago
I am a guy and very sad in these days
Seven answers:
JRJ
14 years ago
cheer up man life is short go do something stupid while you have the chance. like bungee jumping climbing or something like that. just keep your mind off what ever is making you sad.
Tom E
14 years ago
Can anyone make me happy? That's a good question. I think people can help us be happy. Sure.

We all get sad. Sometimes we know why and sometimes we don't. Different things can make us happy. What makes you happy? You might want to experiment and do different things to see if they bring you happiness. Some people like to watch situation comedies on TV. They laugh and relate to the ups and downs of the screen characters lives. Our lives are similar. And for others exercise can lead to a feeling of relaxation and happiness. Or maybe feeding the puppies next door. Its different for everyone. And if you're asking is there some special person missing from your life that could bring you happiness then the answer is I don't know. Most people would say happiness is an inside job, but I'm not totally sure about that. Some people are fine when going it alone in life, and some people just aren't. So if you're hinting that you need a special person, well maybe you do. I don't know.

I don't have a special person. And I guess I don't believe that such a person exists for me. Maybe it does for you. I dont' know. But I would encourage you to actively seek out happiness and see what works and doesn't. What your doing now isn't working. So change something.
babydoll
14 years ago
I'm so sorry to hear of your sadness. True happiness, however, is up to you. Happiness is not so much what we have as what we are. That is the reason why many who live in luxury are not particularly happy, while some who have relatively little and whose lives are rather simple do find happiness. You may have met some hospitalized or handicapped persons who have a sunny disposition, a cheerful, happy outlook. Of course they are not pleased with being ill or crippled and would like it to be otherwise. Yet they find reason for happiness in life.



Having a close relationship with my Creator has brought me happiness. But happiness is not something that you should primarily pursue. It does not come by our making it an end in itself, but it is a by-product of a life of service to God and your fellow humans. Happiness has been likened to a butterfly. If we enthusiastically run after it, trying to catch it, it will always elude us. When we put it out of mind and peacefully carry on according to God’s will, that “butterfly” will come and settle on our shoulder. 





Matthew 5:3 “Happy are those conscious of their spiritual need, since the kingdom of the heavens belongs to them
anonymous
14 years ago
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You can, if you acquire and use the right tools to dump the nonsense people spout all day long because they heard it on TV, or got it txtd, or IM'd or youtubed, or facebooked or kindled, or emailed by someone who knows no more than they do.

To be happy, you neeed to get aligned with reality. That reality is that all of us can be vastly more than we are.

The way to do that follows.





Winning is Better than Frustration

By Generalist

Win in your challenges. End frustration. Change Your Worlds- the Inner world. The Immediate world, The Outer world

You can build your worlds in the style you like, or rebuild if there has been a crash. This doesn’t mean just your perceptions or Inner world. Even people who have their immediate world- their capacities for personal organization and accumulation together, and whose health is great, are living in an outer world that is chaotic, unstable, and has way too much greed, anger, and stupidity. Some of that misery even threatens human progress.

The power of intention focused with the right mental tools is amazing. What Isaac Newton did for gravity, the Japanese monk Nichiren did for all of life.

700 years ago, he already knew that after all assumptions are discarded, these few simple truths remain. I have listed the main points and the words in Japanese. They are capitalized for clarity.



1-Things are always changing, yet the underlying realities common to all life do not change. KYO

2-Causes produce effects. Sometimes this is not obvious because of the time lag between cause and perceived effect. RENGE



3-Life is both physical and non-physical. MYOHO



4-Humans have the ability to focus their minds and achieve great results. NAM

For example, cell phones, google Earth, and GPS to which we are so accustomed would be impossible without satellites in orbit. Yet, they could not be placed there by using the astronomy and physics that existed before Isaac Newton developed his laws of motion and gravity. His formulas are the basis of rocket science. This is an example of difficult and complex methods being replaced by elegant recognition and previously unachievable results being realized through the process of cognitive enhancement. There is no magic in it, just mental clarity.



Nichiren’s method works for life, whether people believe in it, or not. A person just needs to try it for a few minutes a day for 100 days. It is so high octane that it takes years for people to discard their disbelief, even when they get phenomenal results in their life by reciting the formula -Nam Myoho Renge Kyo- and joining with others who also use the method.

It's one thing to be smart and frustrated; it is another to decide to try an extremely effective method of arranging your worlds in a better way. Unfortunately, most people feel safer with contemplating than with learning something new and working toward results. Winning is better than frustration.

Source(s):

My own experiences: phenomenal changes as a result of reciting the formula and working with the SGI for peace, culture and happiness. Caution, translation difficulties and cultural usages tend to cause many people to regard awakening to reality as a religion because it is called Buddhism. The original documents show that neither Shakyamuni, nor Nichiren, intended people to rely on a power beyond their own capacities for enlightenment.

http://www.sgi.org , http://www.sgi-usa.org
strickly2deep
14 years ago
People can't make you happy that is something that you will have to do for yourself. Basically what i'm saying is happiness starts from within and until you are truly happy with yourself no one will be able to fill a void in your life.
Dinga
14 years ago
why can't you be? they are so many people out there who can make you happy and do you know one of them? One of them is Jesus who died for our sake, for your sake too.So whenever you are sad lookup to him.
Lee
14 years ago
Try making others happy then Karma will come your way.


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