Suicide, The best way?

Question

I know my life is only going to get worse not any better. I am a piece of **** and have no friends and close family. I have social anxiety so it makes it worse for me to talk with people. I thought i was attractive, but obviously others do not. I wake up thinking to myself, why? So as the crappy person i am, which is the best way to go?

Answer 1

I used to be like that too. I used to think i was a worthless piece of sh!t. I also didn't have many friends or family close to me. I used to wake up everyday and just wonder if it would be a release. Thinking of death used to comfort me. Then when my depression get really bad, I started to cut. I thought it was the only type of pain I could control. And I liked that. One day when I was getting out of the shower, I forgot to lock the door and my Mom came in and saw me in a towel. She saw what I was doing to myself, and imediatly put me in therapy. I didn't like to talk in therapy, but it got better after a couple months. i was put on anti-phych meds and am on a road to recovery now. I still am depressed, but I am taking it one day at a time. The one thing that therapy taught me, that death is not the way to go. It will hurt the people around you more than you think it will. It will even end up hurting them more than the pain you feel now. Don't do it.



Maybe you should talk to the suicude help line, or a guidance counsellor. I know it's hard. but it will get better.

Answer 2

Suicide is never the way resolve anything as you only destroy the life that has been given to you and you will lose out on opportunities in life. You are still attractive because you know this deep inside. You're just not searching enough. I also have a family who have never been close to me so I know what that's like. You must seek a spiritual outlet so look within yourself and search for the beauty you once recognized. The world is full of people so try your best to find people that suit you. That's the only advice I can give. Good luck!

Answer 3

In the long run, nooo. Suicide is not the way to go. No Matter how bad you think you have it, believe me there is always someone else that has it 1000 times worse than you.



That thought ran across my mind a couple of years ago and I thought about the pros and cons, really no pros in regards to suicide and it would just cause misery for your friends and loved ones. Don't worry, we all have that date and time where our time on this old planet will end and there of plenty of things you can do to enjoy your life. I for one chose to help others in different ways in the community.



You know you, don't be afraid to seek out counsel ling, there are alot of services available to you and maybe temporary medication, I did and it is working great.. Trust me, things will get better.





Hang Tough, You will make it

Answer 4

Noooo, not suicide...the worst thing your parents or friends want is a bloody corps left behind that they have to clean up...just try to get your life back on track, and go to therapy or something.



And for the record, there is a lot more people out there that are worse off than you are, so think about that....plus i'm sure you'll find the right person out there that think you are attractive...



There is always a way to get your life back on track, after all, you only have one shot at life, don't blow it !!

Answer 5

i think you are just having a rough patch in your life - and suicide is NOT the way to go = you still have soooo many days to live and soooo many memories and good times ahead of you ... and i'm sure that a child with cancer or an adult in Africa with no food or water would love to have your life and all that you are blessed with - so even though you aren't feeling great about yourself right now and feel that there is no reason to live remember -- " Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem " - I hope that this answer has changed your mind a little -- i may only be 13 but i've lost too many people to suicide and even though i don't know you it would break my heart to see another person lost to suicide

Answer 6

You are NOT a crappy person. You apparently know how to express yourself in a very passionate way. That in itself if a talent. Ever thought of writing a book or novel? Suicide is obviously not the answer to anything. Don't look at your life in such a negative light. If you continue living your life in such negativity, you'll cause a lot of more negative things to come your way as you are accepting of it. Now if you force yourself to look at the positives (good health, roof over your head, food on your table), you'll become much more open to happiness. Best of luck in all that you do. :)

Answer 7

Nevermind the advices with dos and donts, just try and find the people like you, who share the same opinions and act the same way you do.



For example, you can join a football/soccer/swim/other team if you are into sport and spend a lot of time with them practicing; if you like books, join a book club. People who share same interests can spend hours with each-other without knowing how the time is passing by and that's because they really enjoy and they have fun.



I was something like a library rat, studying all day long, doing my homework, not giving to much importance about other people and other people not knowing of my presence. Well, I discovered I like photography and I kept studying it until I've found people from my town (most of them I met online) who share the same passion as mine. Now we all go out around the city each weekend to take pictures, discuss about, having fun and damn, I envoy every second of it.



So... what's your talent, your passion?

Answer 8

Do you hate yourself so much that you would do something as selfish as committing suicide, why don't you try and find something you're good at and then get totally involved with it or even post some questions here and see what a wonderful place this is

Answer 9

Suicide? To tell you the truth, I disaprove a suicide more than anything. But if you think it's the only thing left then there really isn't anything I can do. I won't suggest anything because as far as I know it's against the law to assist in any kind of killing.

Answer 10

The best way to get through your problems, is out. Don't just give up on everything.



Trust me, I've been in your shoes many times but I still toughed it out and I'm so glad I did. You just don't know what could happen in your life. You can start taking the steps to feeling better about yourself and then you'll find that life will get brighter.



I don't know if you're religous or not, but my dad recently told me something that was kind fo inspiring to me [I'm agnostic, by the way]. He said, "God does not put us through things we cannot handle.". If you're not religious you can just apply that to yourself...YOU can handle everything. It's just a matter of how you react to adversity that comes your way.



Good luck. Please don't give up.

Answer 11

Don't go, you haven't reached your full potential, I'm sure you're a wonderful, beautiful person going through a rough patch. Don't kill yourself, think of all the people who love you that will miss you, like you mom, dad, friends, siblings, pets, coworkers, and extended family. You're not a piece of ****. You just need some help, talk to somebody, if you ever need someone to talk to you can email me [e-mail] I hope you feel better.

Answer 12

LIFE IS GOOD if you try to kill your self and it fail. like if you use a gun to do it and you don't die, you will be paralyzed with a bad scar that will make matters worst are OD on sleeping med's it will cause serious medical problems and you still not dead. what you could do is move to another city are town and start over. belive me LIFE IS GOOD.

Answer 13

Go somewhere else, move to another country.

Find your family or w/e

Suicide is not the way to go, its a pethetic cry for help and it makes you low. If you have a problem with you life, go fix it. Go to a phsychiatrist. Just don't be stupid enough to take your life away because you're too pussy to live with it.

Answer 14

My friend felt the same way after the girl he liked didn' t feel the same way for him. I comforted him, and he regretedd ever thinking that way! so the best way to go IS NOT TO GO!!!!!!!!!!!! you'll find someone who appreciates you for who you are!

Answer 15

hell no its not the right way! i feel that way too but dude dont kill youself. sometimes i just want to throw myself in front of a car and die...i've actually took the time to discover sucide methods online. I was that serious about it. but dude, naaaaa. hell naa. its not worth it. && dude i know im a stranger but I <3 u!

Answer 16

right i really dont think that you should do this because i no you but really happy with your life at the moment but it will get better soon just keep thinking to your self that im goin to get out of this and when im older im goin to have a good job n a better life (:

Answer 17

hey man....saw ur pic in the other question u asked about your hairstyle. u seemed okay then what happened (and yes u are good looking i don't know who told u wat else)? trust me things can change in a minute. i swear one day i feeling sooo bad and then a few days later i couldn't be more happier. you never know how **** works out or how life turns out. hang on a bit more, then tell me how u still feel.

Answer 18

tried it. the next day i feel happy and i say...Why did i even try? so please dont. just think of things that are going to happen. the happy things you look forward to. set up dinner plans with friends and then say: i cant kill my self i have dinner plans! thats what i always do! and let em tell you 99% accuate.

Answer 19

Just keep going, and try your best to make life better.

Answer 20

Live. Suicide is never the only way,

talk to someone about how your feeling,

like a doctor who can recommend you to someone.

Don't kill yourself, hun. You'll be amazed how many people will miss you.

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Answer 21

dude no way is the best way. it will get better killing your self is just selffish. find someone to talk to that your really close with

Answer 22

Choose life.

Answer 23

suicide will definetly get you no where so that should be the last thing on your mind,you would hurt alot of people*

Answer 24

In your sleep of old age is the best way to go.

Wait it out. Call a help hotline.

Answer 25

not to do suicide we are better than that we deserve bigger if you have to go die through christ so you will live in heaven but dont commit suicide you go straight to hekk

Answer 26

go driving, OD on some medicine that makes you sleepy and then pass out and hit a lightpole



youll never know what happened

Answer 27

start going to church,it will make you feel better

Answer 28

No. It is never a good option.My advice?

PROFESSIONAL HELP, NOW!

Answer 29

jumping off of a large building. let the world know what you think of it.

Answer 30

I'm guessing the best ways would be:

A. Blow yourself up with a bomb

B. Overdose on sleeping pills

C. Watch a Paula Abdul sex tape

Answer 31

A gun, because its fast and painless.

Answer 32

to not go.

Answer 33

No it's not.