How can you overcome jealousy quickly?

Question

My ex boyfriend has found a new girl who is much more his type than I am - he was a bit of an alternative guy who liked metal music etc and had long hair etc. I knew he always liked alternative looking girls - I'm quite a normal looking girl - pretty and I have decent style - but this girl has the full schabang of green hair, big tunnels, fake eyelashes, the lot. She's really pretty and I am overcome with jealousy at the fact that he's clearly 10x more attracted to her as he was to me - and I'm still not over him yet which makes it even worse!!

How do I learn to love myself and stop comparing myself to her? It's driving me demented and I know I shouldn't be hard on myself at this time but I can't seem to help it!

Does anyone have any good tips for me to help me regain my self esteem and not bother about her? :(

Answer 1

Then and there surrender your mind and ego to the Altar. An altar is any structure upon which offerings such as sacrifices are made for religious purposes. Altars are usually found at churches and shrines.



Otherwise, please try to know how to bundle such unwanted and negative feelings, impurities or malice (which my be hidden in different nooks and corners of your mind) and throw them in the middle of the ocean. Some of the other impurities are anger, Anxiety, Arrogance, Bias, Carelessness, Conceit, Confusion, Dejection, Delusion, Distortion Distraction Doubt, Envy, Fear, Forgetfulness, Frustration, Greed, Grief, Hatred, illegitimate desire, etc.

Answer 2

Girl, there is some guy 10x better than that boy.



Embrace your "you"-ness!! You are perfect to somebody else out there!! PERFECT!!

You need to get out, all proud in your clothes are your style of make-up and find that guy who thinks you're HOT.



Im sure you have a great personality and will find somebody very very quick! The sooner you start looking for new blokes, the sooner you will get over that rock star ex of yours!



Best Wishes my friend!!



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Answer 3

Every person is attracted to someone different, you don't know.

Just think about it this way, some guy will be more attracted to you than to her and ever x2000, each person and his trigger.

Am not just saying this, I might be more attracted to you than to her by miles.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

FIND A ANOTHER GUY :)