Question:
My parents & some people around me trying to prove that I am having psychological problem,help?
2010-03-07 18:17:28 UTC
Hi I am a 32 yr old man living in south kol.Ia ma BSc pass graduate.Citing that i was not good at education & that i cudnot manage a job they r forcing me to get medicine under psychiatrists which i hate most.
I feel they (psychiatrists) are not Docotrs at all inspite of having a mbbs.
Also,psychiatric medicines do more harm than anything else.i feel i am ok.
I fel both my parents r sick themselves. I am convinced since I am a medical sales representative myself that my mother is suffering from OCD .Her symtoms from my childhood which i was not aware at that time are-
Running after maid servants & double checking whther they have wiped the floor rightly,if not scolding them & then doing it herself again.She feels proud of it that she is keeping the house clean unlike other housewifes.
And my father is very selfish ,male hater person .He & my mom used to forced me to get circumcised.They r kinda child abuser.
They r getting help from my evil sister & bro-in-law who stays in thane, mumbai.
They forced me to continue the job in the company which is headed by this bastard bro-in-law called Prosenjit Mukherjee,Country head of molekule india( A recently launched pharma company).
This is a very deep conspiracy in which the Bengal based Trade Unions of Medical Reps like the WBMSRU & ABSU( wings of CPI(M) leaded trade unions) are in hands with b.i.l. to get me mad by torturing & campaigning against this company which i work for in the territory allocated to me .Also my sick mom n dad r getting from local ppl & they consult evil astrologers & tantriks who may also be involved with local party leaders n anti socials like thos from Mamata's Trinamool Congress & INC (Congress).
Am I really Psycho?Ppl of kolkata seems to very bad n wherever i go they seem to say that i am a psycho.
What to do?
Hope some good person in Yahoo Do Pls Help me
Four answers:
Aradhana
2010-03-08 07:34:36 UTC
You are not psycho- a psycho is a person with socially threatening behaviour.But If you think that Bengal based trade unions etc are in a personal conspiracy against you to make you mad then im sorry to say- you seem to be having some psychiatric issue. Too much suspicion and paranoia like yours might not be normal.Whats the harm in visiting a psychiatrist? Anybody can fall ill.There is no such thing as a mad person. Just like ppl have physical illnesses , they can hav mental illnesses too that should and can be treated enabling one to live a normal and happy life.Getting diagonized will not hurt you
Connor
2010-03-08 09:09:18 UTC
I don't think your mother has OCD, she's just very adiment about cleaning. She might be very rude and a clean freak but that doesn't mean it's OCD. OCD would be more severe than that. She would dedicate her whole day to cleaning the floor, maybe to the point of where she would have excema from the cleaning products and not care, and if she finds one spec on the kitchen floor she would have to redo the whole house in a specific order before she's happy. THATS OCD, not just wanting a clean house.



I think you do have some mental instability, more so than the average person (we all have our things about us). I think you would benifit from therapy from a Psychologist (not a psychiatrist). I am studying to be a psychologist and I also have depression. Knowing what I know from Psychology I know that medicines should always be a last restort and in a lot of ways they are a set back to the patient and really do nothing. So if you feel the same way I do about medication then let your therapist know that and do strictly therapy sessions. That's what I do. It's helpful going to someone once every week, two weeks etc just to vent and help understand yourself. I personally think everyone would benifit from therapy. So just do some therapy to help get what ever issue you need sorted out. But if you are an adult your parents having nothing to do with you anymore and you should be able to make your own decisions.



However I do reccomend that you put this through spell check before posting it.



-Connor
A Dangerous New You
2010-03-07 18:26:38 UTC
Hm, I would have to say get away from your parents and as soon as possible. If possible, move to another country. The problems run too deep to stay put, you need to get away from these things that are making you miserable. Save up enough money so that you can move on elsewhere. I think that psychiatric help is really useful for some people, but for others it can make them worse, because its simply just not what they need. It sounds like you need a fresh start. Go to Canada...or some place in Europe--maybe Germany, or even....America (nods head) there's something here for everyone, even if you are not the most well put together person (not you personally) you have a very good chance of being being accepted. I hope that you can resolve your family issues and move forward in a positive direction.
eva
2010-03-07 18:52:43 UTC
People of Calcutta r so dishonest these days .And UR PARENTS R IN POSSESSION OF EVIL SPIRITS (no 2nd doubt about it). By spirits i mean those who r pulling u into these mess & not some dumb concepts that spirituality or astrology claims.

Get away from that place but going abroad is very tough if not impossible.

Good Luck .Wish you all success & victory ahead.


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