I know what I need to do in my life to make it better...But I never do it...why? Ty all?

Question

Hello people
Hope all is well and ok :)
Id really like if someone could help me with this please...
I feel like I need to change my life care for others more do better things instead of being in bed and that...but I know what I need to do and I tell myself but I never do it...I dont know if its because am too weak or something I dont know...Maybe I dont care...and too scard to do anything...because im weak...lazy and that...need to wake up...need to realise what life is...need to get out of my house...but to be honest I can not be bothered...also theirs other problem...yesterday...something bad happened...someone i really liked...went away from me...because they dont wanna talk to me anymore...i got upset and blah blah blah...then i was gonna write something to them telling them how i feel and try to make them stay maybe...but then :'(...I dont do it...just wanted to talk to myself instead...and its like i dont care...am sooooo confused...I know only me can help myself...but I feel if i did what i needed to do everything will be ok...but why dont i do that?...just sit and talk to myself instead...and then i start thinking that my life...is just i dont know... :'(...I dont know anymore...why am i even here...what am i meant to do?...why am i this way?...I know I am a loser but maybe i dont care that i am a loser too...

so any advice please?

thank you sooo much all...
take care...
:)

Answer 1

You're obviously happy with the way things are, or you would make the choice to do whatever it took to make things different (the way you want them).



It's all about you and your choices ... what you choose to make important and how you choose to prioritize them. Right now, you want things to stay as they are ... when you don't, you'll make changes .

Answer 2

Procrastination. There is a fear somewhere in you regarding this. Write about it and you will discover what it is. Writing usually does this for me and makes me realize things I had buried.



Ahhh... so you plan do this as well but never do? Consider this. You took the time to write this, didn't you? Take the time to write just as much in a notebook. It should only take you as long. 5 minutes maybe?

Answer 3

We all came into this world with a purpose. For some it is instinct to know what you have to do, for others like me and you, we have to search for it. I only found out thru past life regression. Now I am on a journey to fix all the mistakes I made in both this past as well as past life. Some nights the only thing that gets me by is my dogs and the thought of how much my family will hurt if I let myself sink into depression again or tried to kill myself and succeeded. It sounds like you have emotional depression and haven't found your purpose in life or what keeps you going. Deep within us all are all the answers we need to fix our lives and if we don't know our spirit guides or guarding angels will. Sometimes you can put out the thought or question and with a nice quiet and still mind, you may just get an answer like I do. Something else I found helps me is to put notes or special dates on the calender to look forward like comic cons or sci fi events to go to. Final piece of advise I can give you is to seek out or search for a mental health support group in the area you can go to. Many people go and seek help and confide in each other.

Answer 4

yeah, fear and what not. caring too much, while worrying whether others care at all. past traumatic experiences perhaps