Question:
without people thinking your gay how do you as a guy compiment anothere guy?
anonymous
2008-04-17 07:40:47 UTC
without people thinking your gay how do you as a guy compiment anothere guy?
Thirteen answers:
CSE
2008-04-17 07:52:32 UTC
That depends on what you're complimenting.



If you're telling a guy he's hot, people are going to think you're gay no matter what. If you tell him he has a nice ***... same deal.



If you're complimenting him on something like a t-shirt or a golf swing, it's all about how you say it.



Ways to compliment a t-shirt:

"Nice shirt, it new?"

"Hey, when did you get that shirt?"

...then followed up with the where is it from, how much, etc. You don't compliment a guy on his appearance, you compliment him on something he owns, and may like to own yourself.



Ways NOT to compliment a t-shirt:

"That color looks good on you."

"That's a nice shirt, it fits you well."

...These are examples of complimenting a guy's appearance, and not his possessions.



Ways to do it in golf:

"Geez, that ball is gone."

"Do that again and we're giving you a handicap."

...These refer to his sporting prowess, and the competition at hand.



Ways NOT to do it in golf:

"I love watching you swing that club"

"You move your hips perfectly during those swings"

...These refer to the his appearance, or how he moves his body. Guys should not notice these things, or atleast not verbalize that they do. They are unrelated to the competition and speak of an admiration of him as a man.



Hopefully that helps :P
Mercedes
2008-04-17 07:53:30 UTC
Just compliment them like you'd compliment anyone else... Just don't fondle his arm while you're doing it, lol....



My son is gay and gay is not such a big deal if you are.... It's a hard life because people are uneducated and stupid regarding the gay person and/or their lifestyle, but there's nothing wrong with being who God created you as....



But.. back to your question.... Just say it!!! I compliment complete strangers on the street, in the Dr.'s office, in the grocery store.. who cares???



Or... another way to compliment a guy if you're a guy is just to ask them... for example if it's an item of clothing or something bought, just ask them, "Hey man... where'd you pick that shirt up? I'd like to have one if they're not to much $$" or something to that effect.... Or.. you could say, "My girlfriend loves those kind of shoes you've got on... where'd you get em'??? I'd like to grab a pair for myself..."....



If it's his body... hmmmm..... I'm a woman so woman to woman I always just say something to the effect of "I HATE YOU!!! You have perfect boobs!!!"... Or "I hate you SO MUCH!! You have a PERFECT ***, do you work out???"... but that might not work guy to guy...



Just say something to the effect...



"What kind of workout do I have to do to get those abs?? I've been doing weight training and cardios but I can't get them that defined... any suggestions??" (then rip off your clothes, down to that pink Speedo and start strutting around like a chicken in front of him.. JUST kidding...)



Good luck and just do it... who cares what anybody thinks anyway.. it's your life... LIVE IT!!!
Buddy
2008-04-17 07:45:52 UTC
Keep eye contact when making the compliment. Its liek the straight man test. If a woman is talking to a man and the man looks down and checks out her booobs, that means he is straight. If a man checks you out that means he maybe gay
Aerowalker
2008-04-17 07:46:16 UTC
That is almost taboo to compliment a guy. Even if you say they have a cool shirt many will think it's gay. It depends on your relationship. If you are a good friend then maybe they would accept it as okay, but just someone at work that you do not know will question your motive.
anonymous
2008-04-17 07:50:04 UTC
That shirt is cool. Those shoes are tight. Not gay at all. If you say it with a limp wrist or a gay twang in your voice then you might want to think about what you are then!
quantumrift
2008-04-17 07:47:09 UTC
Oh geeszh.. Is it THAT bad now that you can't compliment another man on something? Are people THAT sensitive?



First, you didnt even say WHAT you wanted to compliment the other guy on...



Was it:



Looks? Try "Hey, where do you get your hair cut? It looks pretty cool."



Clothes? Try "Hey where do you get your clothes, they look cool."



Car? "Nice CAR dude! Where did you get it?"



STEREO? "Cool stereo dude, where did you get it?"



BUTT? uh, that's right, you're not gay.



SHOES? "Cool shoes dude, where did you get them?"



MOTORCYCLE: "Nice bike, dude, where did you get it?"



Use your imagination.
eyeshah
2008-04-17 07:48:12 UTC
complement in a straight forward and objective way witout being CHEEKY...and Do u need to prove that ur not a GAy! let them think it if they want to!
Mikkfinn
2008-04-17 07:43:41 UTC
easy. you just compliment them and don't worry about it. If you aren't gay then you should be secure enough in your masculinity to admire others and not fear them thinking that you wanna "do them"
anonymous
2008-04-17 07:44:29 UTC
talk to him on aim or just say that a girl is telling u to tell this to the guy and u r pretending to be like a mediator. so u can get close to him
anonymous
2008-04-17 07:44:02 UTC
Do it in a round about way.
touretts45678
2008-04-17 07:44:02 UTC
unless it's david grohl or brad redford u are =P
anonymous
2008-04-17 07:44:07 UTC
Compliment what he does, not how he looks.
RizelMine
2008-04-17 07:44:13 UTC
compliment him for his what? physique?


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